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Tantra Gift of the Gods to Maximize Co-Creation of Existence: Internet Radio with Janet Kira Lessin, Articles too

Connect & Become One With CosmosTantra is an ancient spiritual practice that originates from space. Ancient aliens who colonized the Earth 450,000 years ago bought tantra from the planet Nibiru and practiced tantra to maximize conception and bring into physicality from higher dimensions souls of advanced capabilities in order to advance civilization and culture and maximize chances for their species’ survival. It was through these tantric practices that Enki, a brilliant scientist and spiritually advanced soul, and Ninmah, a goddess of divine love who would become the main counselor, diplomat and primary peacekeeper for the Anunnaki came through the seed of Anu and his concubines from the Galzu, a species from the angelic realm of existence.

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tantra-lovers-7899988Tantra allows species to awaken kundalini and reconnect souls to their higher awareness of their universal role at the appropriate time for the individual after they’ve reach a point in their lives when it’s time for them to remember. All beings come through the veil.of forgetfulness when incarnating into third dimensional form in order to fully engage in this dimension, which is called life, and fully participate in this program. This program, which is the Earth matrix, is a subroutine matrix of the primary matrix, which is the Solaris Solar system matrix, which is twin system with the Nemesis solar system.



In higher levels of awareness souls feel one another fully because density is less, form is more permeable and we continually merge mind and form, thus are able to understand each other better. We exist more as group mind, hive mind like bees and ants. We are telepathic. Thoughts are read and understood immediately so we respond immediately and know our oneness.


We agreed to experience separation in order to create life that is individualistic. This experiment has resulted in more diversity. The original polarity was self and not self which perpetuated exponentially creating the continuum and all that is. At first we played with negative emotions and began by not liking things about the apparent others we created in the “self, not-self” polarity game.



We began with negative emotions and thoughts which gradually became the ability to hurt the other, first emotionally then as we traveled deeper into form and density, we could hit then eventually kill one another, We’ve been killing ever sense in an ever expanding variety of ways, starting with killing one, than many, and eventually ending with mass weapons of destruction, like nuclear weapons, and other weapons, the likes of which not yet seen on this planet but in existence in the universe.


The Earth has been quarantined so that we may not take nukes into space and not contaminate other worlds, but also so that this planet with it’s extreme diversity of species is protected from the planet killer species that exist out there in the galaxy/universe.



The experiment is about complete and we’ve rounded the corner and are returning to higher densities where the illusion of separateness is less intense. We will now love each other more because form is less dense and we feel each other more thus we have more compassion and empathy for one another. We have paid our dues as a species and the experiment in density and separation will continue in other places. Humanity deserves a vacation of sorts and will now join the Federation of Planets with higher culture and civilization and take a vacation from extreme violence.


tantra-red-colorsThose who wish to accelerate awareness can do so with tantra, a spiritual practice that’s fully experiential and gives you direct access to Source, awareness of the others self, those parts of you incarnated in other bodies by allowing you to move past your skin encapsulated sense of form and separate self sense. You feel separate because flesh is dense. Your light body is permeable and allows you to merge, feel your loving oneness and transcend physicality to remember your natural state of loving oneness with all creation.


398764_500535929999402_1207375106_nWhen you merge with another through the lovemaking process, activate all your energy centers (chakras), awaken your kundalini (like plugging in to the cosmos), you eventually remember it all. The process feels electrical, like pure pleasure currents running through your bodies. You may not accomplish a kundalini awakening while incarnated. It all depends on how advanced you are as a soul.


Tantra is for all, novice to advanced, for tantra allows souls incarnated in flesh a time out, a break from density so they might recharge. Tantra helps them accelerate their personal growth and awakening and activate consciousness for all incarnated on the planet without destroying the paradigm and delicate Eco systems necessary for the divine experiment, the universal agreement of the collective to diversify existence. We are all co creators with source, after all. At the highest emanation of self we are god, all that it is, one. Here we think we are individuals and for this moment here and now, that is our reality.

tantra-couple-sweet-loveMake love. Take a break from your physical life by using your body’s natural ability though lovemaking to transport your soul through time and space. Imagine, go beyond form and experience the totality of creation. Allow yourself to explore new thoughts and ideas way beyond the box and the limited container of this matrix. Bring some of those ideas, especially new ways to play and enjoy life. Laugh. Play. Breathe fully, (in god, out god) with each deep breath.

Next day you’re better equipped to handle the difficulties of this plane. Eventually, as we remember who we are, all improves for everyone as we uplevel to awareness of our oneness and feel each other, love each other and end violence and war, ahimsa, do no harm to those we believe are not ourselves. It’s all illusion, Lila, divine play and tantra s the way to recall and begin to love it all.

The gods gave us tantra as a gift to unwind and relax, play, love and enjoy our lives. It was and is there all along. But the gods so loved us, they wanted us to enjoy life as much as they do. So when the weeks over, the work required of us by being in physical form is done. The seventh day, a day of leisure, enjoyment and fun was given to all, man and god. Love exists for all, man and god and time enough for love exists so that form can function, grow and provide it’s role for life to exist and evolve.

MAKE LOVE TO YOURSELF by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D., Dean, School of Tantra

Prepare a love-nest. Reserve several hours when you’re wide awake without pressing concerns. Prepare to receive and give leisurely, sensitive, unstinting sexual delight to the most important person in your world. Make the boudoir you create warm and comfortable. Provide it with both a full-length mirror and a large hand-held one.

Supply it with sensual music, fragrances, flowers, snacks, sacraments, massage oil or lube and plenty of large, soft towels. Make sure no phone, computer, delivery person or dropper-by can intrude on your tryst with the exalted person you plan to honor. Dress in your sexiest clothes.

Then invite yourself in; YOU are the guest, the most important lover you’ll ever have. You.

Turn on the music, relax, imbibe. Stand before the mirror and slowly take off each of your garments. Look at your body objectively


Turn at different angles to the mirror; see yourself from several angles. Watch your whole body flow as you move. Focus in turn on head, torso, legs, then crown, hair, face, neck, chest, back, belly, hips, buttocks, thighs, knees, shins, hands, feet, toes (but save genitals) as you dance to the mirror. Pick up the hand mirror.

Stand before your image. See your reflection. Reflect on your body from every vantage.

Complete the following sentences aloud to the person in the mirror:

a. The features I can see that I like most about my bodily appearance are ***.

b. The qualities and functions I like most about my body are ***.

c. What I like most about my health is ***.

d. The features I like least about my body as I see it in the mirror are ***.

e. The qualities and functions I least value about my body are ***.

f. What I like least about my health is ***.

h. My liabilies of looks, health and functioning are ***.

 Identify with your it; BECOME YOUR BODY. As body, say:

a. Here’s what, as Body, I find difficult about serving as this soul’s soma ***.

b. Here’s what, as Body, I find satisfying about serving as this soul’s soma ….

c. Here’s how I, as [your name]’s body, feel about the way [your name]’s Inner Critic reacts to me *** .

e. Tell the person in the mirror, “What I, your body, would you like you to value me for is ***.

f. [your name], here’s what else, as your body want you to know from my perspective *** .

Disidentify with your body. Center yourself, so you simultaneously feel and accept feedback from both your body and your intellect.

As [your name]’s Center, complete the following to your body; first speak, later write what you said:

a. What I appreciate about you, Body, is [include what Body, in “e.” above wanted to be valued for] *** .

b. Say aloud, “I’ll take the following steps to improve or accept my looks, health and functioning *** .

Use both mirrors. LOOK IN YOUR ORIFICES.

Focus on, then BECOME YOUR GENITALS, roleplay your genitals. As Genitals, how do you feel. How did you feel in the mirror examination? What, as Genitals, is your existence as your person’s genitals?

Chant the Sanskrit words in italics for each chakra, then say aloud to the person in the mirror, what you, as the voice of your body, want and need.

Say “Lam,” touch your rosebud with your hand and ask your Earthy essence to come to your genital shrine for joy.

Chant “Vam,” touch your genitals and invite your Sensual subself.

Say “Ram,” rub your belly and invite the spirit of your inner Strength to join the fun.

Say “Yam,” touch your heart and invoke your Romantic inner voice.

Say “Ham,” inviting your sound-maker Singer self to be present as you make love to yourself.

Chant “Ooo,” rub your third eye (between your eyebrows) and summons your inner Visioner.

Make the sound “Mmm” and invite your Universal Consciousness to be present too.

Thrice, chant, in single exhale, all the chakras’ syllables in succession (lam, vam,ram, yam, ham, ooo, mmm) and feel each activated and the flow of energy up your spine (your central flute), out the top of your head and out your crown toward the divine. This brings the spiritual to the material. Then suck in your navel and pull your innards upward and imagine you send a root down your spine to the center of the Earth, bringing the spiritual to the material. Experience yourself as the conscious bridge between the spiritual and the material, between  Heaven and Earth.

Masturbate, pleasure yourself slowly as you look in your own eyes in the mirror.

Tell yourself aloud how much you love making love to yourself. Say, “I love you dear, [your name].”

Affirm your deepest devotion to yourself as you orgasm.









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School of Tantra Certification Program - Eternal Flame by Francene Hart












Five Levels of Certification:
Level I – Certified Tantra Practitioner
Level II – Certified Tantra Coach
Level III – Certified Tantra Teacher
Level IV – Certified Tantra Instructor
Level V – Professor of Tantric Studies

* 10 Classes each Level

* Take Classes three ways:
1. In person (see schedule below)
2. Google Hangout online
3. Email correspondence
Google Hangout Classes

    We meet Sundays, 10 AM – noon, most Sundays for 3 months each semester.

* Semesters:

Spring – March, April, May
Summer – June, July, August
Fall – September, October, November
Winter – December, January, February

* Tuition – $1000 each Semester and/or each level.
Audit (listen only, no certificate) for $500.

Level I Certified Tantra Practitioner

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Level I Certified Tantra Practitioner

Level II Certified Tantra Coach- Prerequisite Level I

2013 Level II Certified Tantra Coach

* Individual classes are available for $125.00 per class..

You have three months after classes are done to complete your homework and assignments (to the satisfaction of your Professor(s) in order to earn your Certificate of Completion..

If you need more time to complete or need to repeat classes, you may extend for an additional $500 for another three months.
If you need even more time, you may extend for another three months after your first extension for $250 per Semester..

Certificate of Mastery: You must earn your Certificate of Completion plus complete your thesis and pass (which is reviewed by the board of Professors).  Tuition – $500.00.

Papers and dissertations may be used on our web sites and for educational purposes and materials..

Pseudonyms recommended for clients/students who wish to remain anonymous..

You must achieve a minimum Certificate of Completion in each level to continue to the next level.
You must achieve a Certificate of Mastery in all five levels to earn a Level V – Professor of Tantric Studies Certificate.
If coming to Maui to study in person, you may take Level I and Level II courses back to back while here to save $.
If you take Level I and Level II in person, back to back over 2 weeks, you have 3 months to complete Level I and an additional 3 months to complete Level II..

In this course students:

* Master the basics of the chakra framework for their own growth and the support and growth of their lovers:
* Establish a basic tantric yoga routine for themselves
* Distinguish their fathers and mothers from their lovers
* Facilitate active listening and roleplaying
* Commence study of Non-Violent Compassionate Communication
* Drop parental imprints they no longer embrace
* Take others though the process of freeing themselves from parental imprints they no longer embrace
* Practice taking others through a basic imago healing
Learn how to facilitate emotional trauma release
Study and teach others the basics of female and male sexual anatomy

Tantra Certification Program – Level I – Certified Tantra Practitioner & Level II – Certified Tantra Coach
(Schedule subject to change).

Tantric Sex Transmission - School of Tantra

Summer Semester 2013: June, July, August

Level I – June 10-14, 2013
Level II – June 18-22, 2013


Fall Semester 2013: September, October, November
Level I – September 16-20, 2013
Level II – September 23-27, 2013
Winter Semester 2013 – 2014: December, January, February

Level I – December 9-13, 2013
Level II – December 16-20, 2013, 2013

Spring Semester 2014: March, April, May

Level I – March 10 – 14, 2014
Level II – March 17 – 21, 2014

Summer Semester 2014: June, July, August

Level I – June 15-19, 2014
Level II – June 22 – 26, 2014

Fall Semester 2014: September, October, November

Level I – September 15-19, 2014
Level II – September 22 – 26, 2014

Winter Semester 2014 – 2015 – December, January, February

Level I – December 8-12, 2014
Level II – December 15-19, 2014

We must have two or more students registered for in person classes in hold the in person certification class.
In person course meets Monday through Friday, 10 AM to 5 PM.
If only one student registers, Professors will conduct 5 private tutorials, 3 to 4 hours per day with student.



Distance Learning: Join us live via Google Hangout or via email correspondence

Taught by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D. , Dean of Instruction, School of Tantra Janet Kira Lessin, Professor of Tantric Studies

Go to 808 244-4103, (for details, answers to your queries)


Tantra Couple Sitting Yab Yum in Lotus Blossom - School of TantraIn this five-day intensive Tantra School, you begin to master tantra and better relationships. Morph into tantric healers and teachers. Attendees get a 90-page Instructional Guidebook for Tantra Teachers and, if working for Completion Certification, an electronic copy of the manual for interaction with Dr. Lessin. Attend each day, and you get a Certificate of Attendance; do the homework in the next 3 months and you earn a Certification of Completion 1st Level Tantra Practitioner.



For Certification, when you complete the experiences, perform the experiments, answer (within three months) questions in the electronic guidebook that comes with the training Dr. Lessin certifies you as a Tantra Tantic Lover, entitled to put C.T.D (Certified Tantra Daka or Dakini or C.S.L.. (Certifiied Tantra Lover). School of Tantra, after your name.


Tantric Lovers Activate Crown Chakra - School of Tantra, Maui, HawaiiTo be certified as a Tantra Practitioner, Tantrica, Daka or Dakini you

* master the basics of the chakra framework for your own growth and the support and growth of your lovers

* establish a basic tantric yoga routine for yourself

* distinguish your father and mother from your lovers * facilitate active listening and roleplaying *experience Holotropic Breathing * drop parental imprints you no longer embrace * take others though the process of freeing themselves from parental imprints you no longer embrace * practice taking others through a basic imago healing * learn how to facilitate emotional trauma release * study and teach others the basics of female and male sexual anatomy * learn how to facilitate female ejaculatory orgasm and male ejaculatory control




Level I Courses

101 Overview All-Chakra Tantra

102 Reprogram Parental Imprints

103 Mend Mom’s Mistakes When You Mate

104 Delete Dad’s Defects in Your Lovelife

105 Counsel Relationships: Listen Actively, Roleplay, Communicate Compassion

106 Manage Imagos: Heal Hurts

107 Look at The Lady’s Loves

108 Worship A Woman

109 Heed Holotropic Images

110 Dialogue Inner Voices, Witness & Center

111 Greet Yoga



In All-Chakra Tantra, you center yourself and orchestrate your chakras–inner power plants that generate security, sexuality, power, love, communication, vision, and feelings of oneness with everything and everyone. You learn a chant and a ritual that teaches you how to waken each chakra.



Parents either meet need or fail to meet your needs for love as a child in a way you directly sense. If they truely love you, they hold you and encourage you to develop in your own direction at your own pace. Explore symbolic resonances of love you lacked. Learn, for yourself and clients, how imprints rule your lives now, dictate the ecology of inner voices, dominate your bodies, project into dreams and direct spiritual aspirations. Probe imprints from conception, gestation, labor, delivery, childhood. Learn how to modify imprints to suit life today.



If Mom didn’t completely love and accept herself and others, you copied her. She couldn’t model self-love and overflowing love to others if her parents, in turn, didn’t model it. In this class you lovingly divorce her. Rise above her negative examples. Fully, get that she’ll never meet your demand to love you and ask nothing in return. You rage at how she hurt you and the crap she modeled. Then put ourselves in her place and get how her parents molded her. You empathize. You forgive her. Express love to her. As homework, you guide others to drop junk programs they got from their mothers.



If Dad didn’t completely love and accept himself and others, you copied this. Divorce Dad, rise above his negativies. Realize he’ll never love you unconditionally. Express anger, then put yourself in his place and feel how his parents imprinted him to imprint you. Finally, forgive him and tell him you love him. Take other people through this process.



Understand how genuine concern, authentic communication and active listening help you, your lovers and clients grow. Listen actively–mirror, validate and empathize with one another. Give genuine regard: paraphrase, summarize, show sympathy. Roleplay–share advanced feedback; show a partners and clients how they come across.



Imagos–inner voices–make us seek lovers who personify what you loved or hated about your Mom or Dad. Partners you facilitate in tantric counseling seek (in lovers you represent) what they loved about their caregivers. But you, as lover surrogate, also symbol what they hated about parents. The lover you represent can hurt them like their parents did. When you don’t hurt them and instead, love them, they again feel their Inner Children. They rescript themselves for interdependency rather than co-dependency.



You reconsider your lovers from days gone, then practice helping others review their previous relationships to better current relationships. You, then your clients look at the events, sexual and emotional sharing in each prior pairing. You review the developmental tasks you and they worked on in the relationship and note what you and they learned from being together. Then you see how you and they can apply what you learned to your current loves.



This class, to be experienced immediately after CTD107, is the second part of a tantric date where you listened compassionately to a woman sharing her childhood and sexual history with you. In this part of the date you honor her clitoris, lick her labia, caress her vagina with your fingers, coach catharsis, encourage her ejaculation. In the homework, you teach others how to worship women with the methods you experienced and practiced in class. 



In this class you sample Dr. Stanislav Grof’s Holotropic Breathing. You breathe to music and get holos–experiences, images and insights that improve relationships. Learn the mechanics of holotropic breathing and the modules of Grof’s Master Matrix of perinatally-conditioned movement and how this technology can facilitate tantra.



Use Voice Dialogue to center yourself and to access, own and integrate your shadow and spiritual selves–your less known inner voices (also known as personality aspects, roles, subselves, subpersonalities, egos). You center yourself when you hold the tension between opposed inner voices. Centered, you recognize, embrace and coordinate your protective, vulnerable, instinctual and spiritual subselves. Learn how interactive patterns sour from unexpressed vulnerability and projection of disowned inner voices on others. Practice expressing your hidden hurts and insecurities, say how what bugs you about your friends and lovers is true of you, too. You practice using Voice Dialogue to facilitate others.



Learn to love the look, feel and abilities of your body and your lovers’ for terrific tantric sex and learn how to facilitate clients’ body explorations. For yourself, lovers and clients, you learn how to listen to the voices of the body, to feel your physique, its history, needs and voices that affect tantric sex. Lessons in this course include a gestalt encounter with the body seen in a mirror and a visit to the body’s inside, using an mini-avatar.



Chakra Yoga stretches, strengthens and centers you. It opens each of your energy centers so you feel safe, sexy, empowered, loving, communicative, clear and connected to your beloved and the world. You combine safe postures adapted to your physical condition with precise breathing techniques, subtle spine movements and uplifting visualization to bridge the spiritual and the physical within you, inspire and ground you. Yoga moves, breathing and inner holds tune up your chakras and their corresponding aspects of consciousness. All the chakras’ energies flow through your central channel, your inner flute. Then you’re ready for a flute duet with your beloved and for a symphony of all souls. You share yoga basics with clients.

Info, Registration: 808 244-4103,



For more information and to register go to Certified Tantra Practitioner Program


Note: Our classes and certification programs are available in person or through distance learning.  We’re working to archive all our classes so you can access these teachings at your convenience.  We’re adding Skype classes all the time.

Your interest and participation in these distance learning classes allows us to add more to our schedule. If you’re interested in learning from home and/or may wish to sponsor us coming to your part of the world, please write to us at: or

Call 808-244-4103 (office) or 808-214-3442 (cell)

We’re located in Maui, Hawaii, USA so please call only during business hours, Monday through Saturday, 9AM to 5PM, HST.

You can also text us at 808-214-3442.

School of Tantra, Maui, Hawaii Certification Program - Mermaid Rising in JOY!



Polyamory (loving more than one in a relationship) honors women on all chakra levels. Polyamory lets women fully access their full potential, awaken to the totality of their being. Many religions and social conditioning subjugate the divine feminine and keep us imprisoned in hierarchy and patriarchy. These systems fail to honor the true nature of souls who are individually disconnected from GodSource and out of balance with our own inner masculine and feminine.

When we empower women and the feminine aspects of ourselves, we correct a wrong perpetrated for millenia. We must correct the disempowerment of women; we must become more conscious, aware and centered. When we’re conscious and aware of our sins against each other, humanity and this world, we can make amends. Peace,
love, reconciliation’s the way, the wave, the path towards healing.
Our ancestors gave us a gift, embodied, symbolized by the yin yang symbol which shows us what we must do to heal and reconnect with GodSource.

Women, men and all beings are naturally polyamorous, for we are all one. When we’re in our divine selves, we are aware of our connections to one another. We feel love for all beings, all creatures, all creation. We feel separate so we can create divine play (lila) and diversity. Separation’s an illusion designed to fool ourselves and ultimately, as we awaken in the dream, we laugh, like the Buddah, and understand the cosmic joke.

Women–who give birth and have vaginas and wombs–bridge the cosmos with their bodies that create and bring life into physicality from other dimensions, higher realms, GodSource and the cosmos. Souls originate not only around this sphere of influence, but from other planets (see and dimensions. When we look at life and existence from this perspective, we’re all aliens who’ve agreed to come inhabit this world for a brief while to enjoy this
earthly vacation and create experiences and diversity. Think of it as we’re taking a vacation in a foreign country. We go there to have fun. But we’re not having much fun here on Earth now, are we, with all these wars, death, dying, disease? No. So love is the answer. And empowering the divine feminine within ourselves and within women universally balances patriarchy and creates partnership.

Which brings us back to polyamory. We’re not naturally monogamous. Very few take one partner for life. Do the DNA analysis. See how we behave on the internet. It’s obvious, like the nose on your face. But, many religions polarize, demonize, guilt-trip, manipulate and enslave us. Catholicism, Islam, and many fundamental creeds maintain a schism in our natural ways of beingness. The schism disempowers all of humanity and maintains us as socio-political-economic slaves. We’re prisoners.

We women can heal the schism through our natural abilities to love more than one. As mothers, we balance love between all our children. As women, we’re natural nurturerers. We can have sex for hours, open divine portals and reconnect to Source through extended, multiple orgasms. Our male lovers come and go. But unless they master tantra, men cannot sustain and maintain their energies to meet a woman who’s fully engaged in her total sexual capacity and having orgasms for hours, which is her natural ability. When a woman orgasms for an extended period of time, she opens portals to higher awareness, pierces the
veil of separateness and remembers who she is. That’s why religions attempt to stifle women and their natural abilities, for if women remembered who they were, they wouldn’t support religions designed to keep them economic and societal slaves. If women recall their true identity, misogenistic religions would fail and true spirituality and connection to GodSource would become the norm. We’d all be free.

Women need more than one lover, one giver–male or female (doesn’t really matter)–to become the divine channels of love they really are.
There’s an erogenous zone in the back of our throats. Yes, both men and women. And there’s an erogenous zone in the anuses of both men and women. So, what could that possibly indicate? Maybe we’re all really bisexual? Why else would God put erogenous zones in these places?

Imagine a society raised remembering that we’re all polyamorous. We’d be free from jealousy for loving more than one would be the norm. And that’s not to say that monogamy would disappear, for there are times when it’s totally appropriate to pair-bond. We always have favorites. Even mothers and fathers who love all their children have favorites. There’re personalities that match better than others since people have different interests. So what? Love’s across the board.

You can love many and still have preferences about where you want to spend your time and with whom. If you allow what’s real at all times, it all sorts itself out.

The law of attraction (and repulsion for that matter) is perfect in how it sorts and separates, assembles and creates natural groupings and selections. If we were truly whole and complete within ourselves and not raised to be so dysfunctional, neurotic, psychotic, paranoid and insecure, we’d be ok no matter who loves whom for we’d love ourselves first and foremost.

Women sexually can handle more than one lover. Women have huge hearts, capable of loving many. In a poly world we share resources. We have more connections with more people so we have a greater support system. When we’re poly we’re forced by necessity to learn how to communicate so that we can get along and actually do meaningful work. We learn more and accomplish more things in our lives when we share, pull our resources, live together, interact and openly, actively engage with more than one. We’re social beings; it’s unhealthy to isolate ourselves into hermatic existences hunkered behind computers.

When we limit ourselves to dyadic love, we disconnect from our full potential because one person only stimulates us one-dimensionally. Many loves, be it sexual lovers or just those with whom we share intimacy–social, familial, communal–lets us experience ourselves on many levels and activate those parts within ourselves more fully to grow and evolve faster, exponentially and ultimately serve humanity and all of creation more fully. As we individually evolve, we contribute to our society and psycho-spiritually feed the morphogenic field accelerating the evolution of our species.

What we see happening here now on this planet is the breakdown of culture and society. Our species is disintegrating because of the imbalance created by hierarchy–which dishonors each individual–and patriarchy–which dishonors women and the feminine part of each individual Self. We need each and every one of us, for we all hold a piece of the puzzle of the totality of our being and we’re all idiot savants; each has our own genius.

We need to breed consciously. See our society as through we look through the eyes of extraterrestrials and you grok our situation. We’re super dysfunctional, perverse; we create children, bring them into physical form from spirit. We charge them to live as slaves in a world they didn’t ask choose. We must start conceiving consciously and only bring in babies we can afford, individually and collectively as a society, to support. Each and every being has a right to free food, air, water, shelter, education and reproductive choice, to celebrate and share their conscousness. If we can’t do this for a new baby, we should excercise birthcontrol. Time to get conscious.

With spiritual practices like tantra and polyamory, you really have to think things through to the full potential and ramifications of your actions. Feel the apparent other. Walk in his or her shoes. Religions that disparage individuality must fade away. We have free will.
Pseudo-spiritual religions that disregard consciousness and belittle women and individual freedom are perverse. Such false religions can die and true spirituality, honoring all consciousnesses can prevail. We win through NULLITY (withdrawing participation). Ideologically enslaving patriarchal religions exist because, at some level we support, tolerate, and fail to challenge them. We’re not fully alive if we’re slaves but if we stop participating in the games of hierarchy and male supremacy, the game of patriarchy ends.

Our souls constantly recycle in and out of the birth but we’re beginning to extinct ourselves. Radiation pours around our planet, oblivious to country boundaries; air knows no countries. We’re genociding ourselves because (on a soul level as a species) we’re unhappy and know we’re out of balance. We get less fertile over time from exposure to this radiation. Some of us may evolve and mutate, adapt to these new levels of toxins. We may evolve into a new species or die out. We can save ourselves only if we respond to the clarion call we created with toxins and accidents.

See who we truly are: spiritual beings having human experiences. Humans are not monogamous and never were. Honor who we truly are. Stop creating psychological schisms in our psyches; stop subscribing to religions and social pressures to conform, conform, conform. We are naturally tantric; we embody a chakras and kundalini energy (a cord that connects us to Source) Once awakened, kundalini energy reconnects us to the universal grid and we remember who we truly are. Everyone can access their kundalini. Practice tantra and embrace spirituality, move past dogmatic programming and remember who you are as a soul and your kundalini awakens.

So polyamory’s best for women. It’s best for men too. It’s best for society for it honors our true nature, who we are as physical beings. And when we get real and really reveal who we truly are, we become authentic as a species. With honor comes integrity, respect, dignity for all members of a society. Wake up, become conscious and aware and join the truth movement. Truth sets us free and love truly is the answer.

I speak from experience. My monogamous marriages were prisons. Tantra awakened my kundalini. Empathize with my experiences through my books (Polyamory Many Loves: Polytantric Lifestyle, A Personal Account, How to Really Love a Woman and All-Chakra Tantra)and ride the kundalini of tantra and polyamory with me.

Janet Kira Lessin, CEO of the World Polyamory Association, is a featured
presenter at the 2011 World Polyamory Association Conference
(, July 29-31, 2011. Call 808-244-4103, 808-214-3442,
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Love is Sex Is Love Is Sex Is Love Is Sex Is Love: A Dream by Janet Kira Lessin – June 21, 2011

Love is Sex Is Love Is Sex Is Love Is Sex Is Love: A Dream by Janet Kira Lessin – June 21, 2011

Last night I dreamed I was writing an article on my computer entitled “Love is Sex Is Love Is Sex Is Love Is Sex Is Love.” The article explored the nature of love and its relationship with sex compounded with the definition of morality and what morality means to whom. Who is moral? Immoral? What is moral? Who creates morality? Who defines it? Mix it all up with religion and mores and values of our cultural conditioning. Add birth control, population control, conscious conception, procreation, abortion. The debate began.

While my head was spinning as we all were busy contemplating reality, along came ETs. They looked around the world far and wide for someone with a kind heart who could lead the planet. They found that person and surprise, surprise, it was I! I was the chosen one and soon I was made “Ruler of the World.” As Ruler I was expected to solve all the woes of the world. The ETs helped.

There were 6 mentors/guides for each human. Since there are almost 7 billion of us, there were 42 billion helpers. What a huge group effort. But the universe is vast, the Earth and her beings important, so they rallied around us for we are worthy of such love and attention. All assistants were ETs or from other dimensions and higher realms. We had 6 days to accumulate all the knowledge we gathered from all the people into a central database.

All humans of the age of understanding (basically all except newborns) were asked what made them happy, what do they want and like to do? Do they enjoy their relationships (sexual, family, work)? Was there anything wrong? Any improvements they’d like to see? Where would they live if they had a choice? What would their ideal homes or space look like.

These and many others, all kinds of personal questions were asked. All was entered in a giant database on a super computer, ready for the next phase.

Next a moratorium on all births was declared. All who were pregnant were allowed to come to full term. All others were temporarily sterilized until an evaluation could be made about the optimum population for each planet and the best population for each area on the planets. The rest of the planets in the solar system and even the galaxy were open for immigration. Those who wanted to breed and have numerous children could relocate.

All diseases including aging were eliminated. On Earth if you already reproduced yourself you could not have more children. When you reached the age of 18, you could apply for parent hood then go to parenting school and if you passed, could breed. If you wanted to breed and not raise the child you were matched with someone who wanted a child but could not breed or chose not to personally create a child. If you had multiple births, others who wanted children and could not have children or chose not to personally create a child could raise the extra child or children you produced. We realized that since we all were healed and basically physically immortal, we could no longer breed endlessly without destroying all.

All poisons, pollution were removed from land, sea, air. Safe ways of transport, like teleportation, time travel, gateways, stargates were created so travel from place to place was simple and safe. Highways were removed. Millions of miles of land were returned to nature.

Cities were more centralized with those who like to farm and be in nature trained and assigned to jobs like forest rangers, park rangers and farmers. All farms and all food was now natural, organic, safe and healthy. Since sex was primarily not used for procreation and all was known about every individual–likes and dislikes about people, sex, relationships, family, attractions, repulsions and more–people followed their hearts instead of programming and conditioning. All were given back their natural telepathic abilities so they now lived in a more transparent society. With transparency came honesty, authenticity, no more lies. Since there was no more sexual repression, violence faded away. There was no crime, hatred, racism, prejudice, war. ETs showed us the Universe is vast with endless intelligent races, species, life so prejudice proved to be silly.

We now only knew love. Money was eliminated. But in the interim we played with it. All were given $500,000 at the first of the year each year for a while. If you hadn’t spent it all, your account was simply returned to the $500k mark. All were given food, clothes, shelter, water, air, education, transportation, energy, interesting things to do. So we soon realized money was useless, had no meaning, no value, so we soon grew out of any need for it. It was a nice transition, very easy, smooth.

Religion seemed silly as the truth behind the history of it all was revealed. Fundamentalists could no longer inflict their beliefs on others for one persons rights ended were another began. Each was free, equal, men, women, children. All had free will, autonomy and were not limited by the families and cultures they were born into but could chose where and when to go. All practiced ahimsa (do no harm). Tantra, healing on all chakra levels, awakening kundalini, piercing the veil, reconnecting with GodSource and remembering who we really are as souls/spirits became the norm. We realized sex and spirit are one, love is the answer so the debate that started this whole dream was over.

We became enlightened, conscious, aware. We cared for each and every one of us. All were equally important, vital for the advancement of all of humanity and the totality of existence. Since we knew all were important, all genius, knowledge, information, ideas, imagination and wisdom from all ages was acknowledged and encouraged. Information freely flowed. All questions were instantly answered. Nothing was ever hidden. We wished, as a culture, to go beyond our current limitations so all we knew and all they (the other species) knew was openly shared.

Children were not circumcised nor mutilated for they were given free will and choice around their bodies and gender choice. At a certain point, perhaps 13 for the initial ritual and others at 18, 21, 30, 50 ,60, 100, a right of passage was initiated for each person honoring their lives and transition from childhood to adult and through life.

Since there were no more diseases nor accidental births, experimentation, especially sexual, was encouraged. As a result, humans reached new orgiastic heights and connected to GodSource and one another while embodied in third dimensional physical form. The revelations they had around sexuality, orgasm, energy, chakras, spirituality, interdimensional travel, astral, soul, spiritual travel expanded knowledge exponentially beyond any level previously imagined.

While there was still much more to behold, it was time so I returned to my boday. I awoke to the sound of the morning doves, my cat sweetly draped across my chest, purring softly. I’m sure more will be revealed again over time at night when my ego is put aside and I am open to receive more information from beyond, from my Higher Self and my Guides.

Phoenix Goddess Temple’s “Sacred Sexuality” Is More Like New Age Prostitution

On a brisk Sunday morning in mid-January, Wayne Clayton arrives at work at Phoenix Goddess Temple wheeling a brown piece of luggage.

“These are all my healing tools,” he says.

Among them are a clear plastic bag stuffed with white latex gloves and a bottle of lubricant. He will use them later in one of his “trauma healing” sessions. But first, he’ll receive his own session with a temple “goddess” who calls herself Aphrodite. Clayton says it’s common for practitioners at Phoenix Goddess Temple to do sessions for each other. It helps “recharge energy” and maintains an all-important balance.

Practitioners at this self-styled church near 24th Street and Thomas Road say that what they do is sacred work to balance energy and heal people, and Clayton really seems to believe it — at least enough to let New Times watch two of his all-too-revealing sessions.

Clayton’s title is “touch healer.” He’s in his 50s, about 5-foot-8, heavyset, with glasses and salt-and-pepper hair. Aphrodite is one of about 14 women who work at the temple. Like the majority of the goddesses, she appears to be in her late 30s to early 40s. She’s tan, blond, and blue-eyed, with faint crow’s feet in the corners of her eyes. She says she conducts up to three sessions per day.

Just what is a “session,” you ask? Step into the “Persian Room” with Aphrodite and Clayton.

This room is light blue, with accents that include billowy white curtains tacked across the ceiling. Books by Persian poet Rumi adorn the end tables, and sounds drift from a boom box — mostly birds chirping, combined with the sound of a sitar. A stick of Nag Champa incense fills the room with an earthy, spicy smell.

Clayton gets butt-naked and belly-down on a massage table. Aphrodite runs her hands over his back, then takes off her sarong and drapes it over him. She’s wearing only a black G-string that reads “I O French  .” She tells him she’s going to run the sarong across his body a few times, and each time, he should imagine some pain he’s had going away. She rubs coconut oil on him while saying things like, “We’re all deserving of pleasure.”

About 40 minutes into the session, Clayton turns over on his back. He doesn’t have an erection. Aphrodite proposes a prostate massage. She puts on a “finger condom” and inserts a finger into his anus, while simultaneously gripping and stroking his penis.

Five minutes of this, and Clayton’s whole body starts shaking. He lets out several loud moans, and Aphrodite cleans him up with a wet towel.

After he’s dressed, Clayton tries to explain his session from a spiritual perspective.

“The start with the sarong was awakening my skin,” he says. “We were developing a relationship, when I started to feel tingling sensations of yin-yang balance. Then she sent meridians up and down my spine to move internal energy better, and we had chakra-to-chakra contact.”

Aphrodite’s interpretation of what happened sounds less ethereal. She says what New Times witnessed is typically what she does in a session, but regarding the prostate massage, she says, “I don’t always do it. Some guys are uncomfortable or they’re already erect. Usually, once I rub my breasts on that area, it’s over. But if it’s a little limp, I’ll ask to do the prostate.”

“The prostate is a sacred male spot,” Clayton adds. “I had stuff there I needed to release.”

Phoenix Goddess Temple claims to offer “touch healing” to the sexually wounded and disenfranchised. But really, it appears to be nothing more than a New Age brothel practicing jack psychology techniques.

Licensed psychologists say the “healing” could be damaging, and legal experts

say the touching could be illegal. But the temple has been operating mostly trouble-free for almost three years and raking in an estimated $20,000 a month in “donations.”

Women at the temple take names like Magdalena, Shakti, and Devima. There’s also a high priestess named Gypsy, and a tall, lithe blonde named Leila, who advertises her measurements (36-26-37) on her page at the temple website, which includes photo galleries of each goddess.

The goddesses practice techniques that include genital touching for a “religious offering” of money that generally ranges from $204 to $650. Their advertisements go in the adult sections of local newspapers, including New Times, but Phoenix Goddess Temple founder Tracy Elise says the temple is not a brothel — it’s a church, and the services offered are religious rituals to enrich people’s lives.

The women at the temple have mostly male clients, while Wayne Clayton (one of the few male practitioners at the temple) works primarily with women, particularly the sexually abused. His form of “healing” work includes spanking and exploring “energy spots” inside vaginas and anuses. He has no license or certification in psychology, but says he offers an alternative approach to solving some of the same problems addressed in sex therapy.

Sex therapy is a relatively new field. Until the 1960s, sexual dysfunctions were generally treated with psychoanalysis. The pioneers of modern sex therapy, William Masters and Virginia Johnson, began doing laboratory observations at Washington University in St. Louis in 1957. They studied things like vaginal lubrication and orgasm, and established the “four stages of sexual response” (excitement, plateau, orgasm, resolution). Their early work advocated therapists as sex surrogates, a technique now shunned in licensed sex therapy.

Goddess Ninmah Comments:

Time to legalize prostitution. Whatever two (or more) consenting adults agree to do sexually is none of anyone else’s business. Look how many marry for money. Is that any different than having sex for money?  Save the jail space and the time and money wasted in courts for real criminals.  Cheaters will cheat whether it’s with a prostitute or their neighbor’s partner. So that’s really got nothing to do with it. 

Prostitution alleviates sexual tension and the likelihood that sexual predators will prey on your son or daughter.  Sexually free societies are less likely to be violent or war. Maybe that’s how we heal the planet. Make love, not war.  More sex for everyone! We’re sexual beings and all deserve a little loving touch.


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