SACRED MATRIX

POLYAMORY’S BEST FOR WOMEN by Janet Kira Lessin

Polyamory (loving more than one in a relationship) honors women on all chakra levels. Polyamory lets women fully access their full potential, awaken to the totality of their being. Many religions and social conditioning subjugate the divine feminine and keep us imprisoned in hierarchy and patriarchy. These systems fail to honor the true nature of souls who are individually disconnected from GodSource and out of balance with our own inner masculine and feminine.

When we empower women and the feminine aspects of ourselves, we correct a wrong perpetrated for millenia. We must correct the disempowerment of women; we must become more conscious, aware and centered. When we’re conscious and aware of our sins against each other, humanity and this world, we can make amends. Peace,
love, reconciliation’s the way, the wave, the path towards healing.
Our ancestors gave us a gift, embodied, symbolized by the yin yang symbol which shows us what we must do to heal and reconnect with GodSource.

Women, men and all beings are naturally polyamorous, for we are all one. When we’re in our divine selves, we are aware of our connections to one another. We feel love for all beings, all creatures, all creation. We feel separate so we can create divine play (lila) and diversity. Separation’s an illusion designed to fool ourselves and ultimately, as we awaken in the dream, we laugh, like the Buddah, and understand the cosmic joke.

Women–who give birth and have vaginas and wombs–bridge the cosmos with their bodies that create and bring life into physicality from other dimensions, higher realms, GodSource and the cosmos. Souls originate not only around this sphere of influence, but from other planets (see http://www.enkispeaks.com) and dimensions. When we look at life and existence from this perspective, we’re all aliens who’ve agreed to come inhabit this world for a brief while to enjoy this
earthly vacation and create experiences and diversity. Think of it as we’re taking a vacation in a foreign country. We go there to have fun. But we’re not having much fun here on Earth now, are we, with all these wars, death, dying, disease? No. So love is the answer. And empowering the divine feminine within ourselves and within women universally balances patriarchy and creates partnership.

Which brings us back to polyamory. We’re not naturally monogamous. Very few take one partner for life. Do the DNA analysis. See how we behave on the internet. It’s obvious, like the nose on your face. But, many religions polarize, demonize, guilt-trip, manipulate and enslave us. Catholicism, Islam, and many fundamental creeds maintain a schism in our natural ways of beingness. The schism disempowers all of humanity and maintains us as socio-political-economic slaves. We’re prisoners.

We women can heal the schism through our natural abilities to love more than one. As mothers, we balance love between all our children. As women, we’re natural nurturerers. We can have sex for hours, open divine portals and reconnect to Source through extended, multiple orgasms. Our male lovers come and go. But unless they master tantra, men cannot sustain and maintain their energies to meet a woman who’s fully engaged in her total sexual capacity and having orgasms for hours, which is her natural ability. When a woman orgasms for an extended period of time, she opens portals to higher awareness, pierces the
veil of separateness and remembers who she is. That’s why religions attempt to stifle women and their natural abilities, for if women remembered who they were, they wouldn’t support religions designed to keep them economic and societal slaves. If women recall their true identity, misogenistic religions would fail and true spirituality and connection to GodSource would become the norm. We’d all be free.

Women need more than one lover, one giver–male or female (doesn’t really matter)–to become the divine channels of love they really are.
There’s an erogenous zone in the back of our throats. Yes, both men and women. And there’s an erogenous zone in the anuses of both men and women. So, what could that possibly indicate? Maybe we’re all really bisexual? Why else would God put erogenous zones in these places?

Imagine a society raised remembering that we’re all polyamorous. We’d be free from jealousy for loving more than one would be the norm. And that’s not to say that monogamy would disappear, for there are times when it’s totally appropriate to pair-bond. We always have favorites. Even mothers and fathers who love all their children have favorites. There’re personalities that match better than others since people have different interests. So what? Love’s across the board.

You can love many and still have preferences about where you want to spend your time and with whom. If you allow what’s real at all times, it all sorts itself out.

The law of attraction (and repulsion for that matter) is perfect in how it sorts and separates, assembles and creates natural groupings and selections. If we were truly whole and complete within ourselves and not raised to be so dysfunctional, neurotic, psychotic, paranoid and insecure, we’d be ok no matter who loves whom for we’d love ourselves first and foremost.

Women sexually can handle more than one lover. Women have huge hearts, capable of loving many. In a poly world we share resources. We have more connections with more people so we have a greater support system. When we’re poly we’re forced by necessity to learn how to communicate so that we can get along and actually do meaningful work. We learn more and accomplish more things in our lives when we share, pull our resources, live together, interact and openly, actively engage with more than one. We’re social beings; it’s unhealthy to isolate ourselves into hermatic existences hunkered behind computers.

When we limit ourselves to dyadic love, we disconnect from our full potential because one person only stimulates us one-dimensionally. Many loves, be it sexual lovers or just those with whom we share intimacy–social, familial, communal–lets us experience ourselves on many levels and activate those parts within ourselves more fully to grow and evolve faster, exponentially and ultimately serve humanity and all of creation more fully. As we individually evolve, we contribute to our society and psycho-spiritually feed the morphogenic field accelerating the evolution of our species.

What we see happening here now on this planet is the breakdown of culture and society. Our species is disintegrating because of the imbalance created by hierarchy–which dishonors each individual–and patriarchy–which dishonors women and the feminine part of each individual Self. We need each and every one of us, for we all hold a piece of the puzzle of the totality of our being and we’re all idiot savants; each has our own genius.

We need to breed consciously. See our society as through we look through the eyes of extraterrestrials and you grok our situation. We’re super dysfunctional, perverse; we create children, bring them into physical form from spirit. We charge them to live as slaves in a world they didn’t ask choose. We must start conceiving consciously and only bring in babies we can afford, individually and collectively as a society, to support. Each and every being has a right to free food, air, water, shelter, education and reproductive choice, to celebrate and share their conscousness. If we can’t do this for a new baby, we should excercise birthcontrol. Time to get conscious.

With spiritual practices like tantra and polyamory, you really have to think things through to the full potential and ramifications of your actions. Feel the apparent other. Walk in his or her shoes. Religions that disparage individuality must fade away. We have free will.
Pseudo-spiritual religions that disregard consciousness and belittle women and individual freedom are perverse. Such false religions can die and true spirituality, honoring all consciousnesses can prevail. We win through NULLITY (withdrawing participation). Ideologically enslaving patriarchal religions exist because, at some level we support, tolerate, and fail to challenge them. We’re not fully alive if we’re slaves but if we stop participating in the games of hierarchy and male supremacy, the game of patriarchy ends.

Our souls constantly recycle in and out of the birth but we’re beginning to extinct ourselves. Radiation pours around our planet, oblivious to country boundaries; air knows no countries. We’re genociding ourselves because (on a soul level as a species) we’re unhappy and know we’re out of balance. We get less fertile over time from exposure to this radiation. Some of us may evolve and mutate, adapt to these new levels of toxins. We may evolve into a new species or die out. We can save ourselves only if we respond to the clarion call we created with toxins and accidents.

See who we truly are: spiritual beings having human experiences. Humans are not monogamous and never were. Honor who we truly are. Stop creating psychological schisms in our psyches; stop subscribing to religions and social pressures to conform, conform, conform. We are naturally tantric; we embody a chakras and kundalini energy (a cord that connects us to Source) Once awakened, kundalini energy reconnects us to the universal grid and we remember who we truly are. Everyone can access their kundalini. Practice tantra and embrace spirituality, move past dogmatic programming and remember who you are as a soul and your kundalini awakens.

So polyamory’s best for women. It’s best for men too. It’s best for society for it honors our true nature, who we are as physical beings. And when we get real and really reveal who we truly are, we become authentic as a species. With honor comes integrity, respect, dignity for all members of a society. Wake up, become conscious and aware and join the truth movement. Truth sets us free and love truly is the answer.

I speak from experience. My monogamous marriages were prisons. Tantra awakened my kundalini. Empathize with my experiences through my books (Polyamory Many Loves: Polytantric Lifestyle, A Personal Account, How to Really Love a Woman and All-Chakra Tantra)and ride the kundalini of tantra and polyamory with me.

Janet Kira Lessin, CEO of the World Polyamory Association, is a featured
presenter at the 2011 World Polyamory Association Conference
(www.worldpolyamoryassociation.com), July 29-31, 2011. Call 808-244-4103, 808-214-3442, worldpolyamory@aol.com.
Janet is the President of the School of Tantra (www.schooloftantra.com),
schooloftantra@aol.com.